I am right there with you guys. . I would definitely say no contact. Go dark. Let her come to you. Let her come home to the lonely house and miss you and all of your things. That is what SHE wanted. If you persue her, she will know you're just sitting there waiting for her. Don't call her, don't text her, don't drive by (I am SO guilty of this!), don't go to her favorite place hoping to "bump into her," don't initiate any contact. That's up to her now. She needs to feel you being gone and start to miss you . She can't miss you if you're contacting her. You work at the same place, just do your normal job and try not to run into her. I did no contact with H for 5 weeks (hardest thing ever!) and he did start to miss me and started reconsidering things. Give it a chance. It's hard, but it does work. I REinitiated no contact with 8 days ago. It's so hard, but I'm forcing myself. We can pray for each other. I know I can use the help!
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
. I would definitely say no contact. Go dark. Let her come to you. Let her come home to the lonely house and miss you and all of your things. That is what SHE wanted. If you persue her, she will know you're just sitting there waiting for her. Don't call her, don't text her, don't drive by (I am SO guilty of this!), don't go to her favorite place hoping to "bump into her," don't initiate any contact. That's up to her now. She needs to feel you being gone and start to miss you . She can't miss you if you're contacting her. You work at the same place, just do your normal job and try not to run into her. I did no contact with H for 5 weeks (hardest thing ever!) and he did start to miss me and started reconsidering things. Give it a chance. It's hard, but it does work. I REinitiated no contact with 8 days ago. It's so hard, but I'm forcing myself. We can pray for each other. I know I can use the help!
