Husband who told me 3 weeks ago that he wants a divorce and there is no changing his mind wants to be friends. We have children together and he is back and forth from home to friends houses. He is still very friendly, engages in chatting, jokes around, cooks and cleans, offers to make me breakfast, cares for me when I'm sick... so I got hopeful and made the mistake of asking him if he was having a change of heart...he said no. So today I tried going dark... well it seems he's pulled back too...asked if there was something g wrong and he's been colder. Did I jump the gun on the going dark method? Should I be a friend back to him? I'm soooo confused
