Battles of the sexes?

[Zues126]

I felt mixed emotions. I feel like he is blaming me and constantly finding things against me to be angry about. It's all about him. Now it's the court thing. But he left prior to that. I feel like he is just going to be angry at me no matter what I say and do. I told him every time I asked him for state mandated CS he gave me a hard time. (I realize that in my perception it is all about me)

I'd imagine when he left he was hurt and frustrated and hoping you'd realize that and change your behavior. He didn't really want to end things so asking about CS wasn't what he wanted, and he was shocked that you did that. Almost like someone threatening suicide as a cry for help and being told 'ok, kill yourself, I'm going to the movies". I just don't think it's what he expected.

Just my interpretation.

Anyway he seems to be shooting straighter than most WAS's.

Do you two have plans to involve a counselor? Might I suggest a DB Coach? Where did you leave off?

Good job keeping your mouth shut. There is a tendency to want to tackle the hard stuff first so you don't waste time or get your hopes up. That wouldn't be a good idea.