Inpain

Just an added note:
You didn't slip up .. You needed to ask him to talk. If you didn't it would of built up and would of come out another day another way. You asked him , he gave you his answer and left. You are still not happy with that I'm sure. It's so frustrating. But let it go. Learn from his response. You'll be surprised as this goes further down the road you will know what , how and when to say things to get him to talk. Take notes on what works and what doesn't.

You were left for dry, on the side of the road with no chance to get back in the car because he drove off.
Sadly he is in a car with no rear view mirrors and he can't see you hurting and crying. He doesn't want to see it.

And it would of been so nice if our spouses told us how they were feeling before BD. If we had a fighting chance .., but we don't.

Irish


M51
XW43 (38 at bd)
BD1 MAY 30 2015
BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text
moved out Aug 2 2015
left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20)
Her divorce Final July 26 2016
Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015