Thanks Rich. For the most part, I have been going hard at the gym for a while now. It definitely helps, both physically and socially. I made some pretty good friends there so far. I will read up on your sitch.
Me-40's W- 40's Married 22, Together 29 BD#1- 6/15 W needs space BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16 Still both home, but not for long