I don't know what to do with it. My intention was to blow it up, but the first thing I found was proof that she is filing soon. Maybe tomorrow.
A huge part of me wants to confront her with it, but why would she even care at this point? She wants out anyway.
What she would not want is to have this info leaked to her family. Again, what good would that do now?
Anything I do with this information will just cause more pain to people around us. Mostly, my children. I will just sit on this unless I can think of a useful way to use it.
I waited too long. This should have been done when she was still in the "I'm not sure" phase.


Me-40's
W- 40's
Married 22, Together 29
BD#1- 6/15 W needs space
BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16
Still both home, but not for long