MB - Your H is in replay. This will take a while. There will be no R with OW when this ends, unless he does something stupid, like marries her. Even then - it won't last.
Yes, definitely replay. I freaking HATE replay! I am getting so tired of feeling worthless because he is choosing HER over me. I know, I know, I know....I am responsible for my own feelings. This has nothing to do with me. I need to detach and GAL. Yadda, yadda, yadda. I KNOW! I've been trying, but I just can't today.
Originally Posted By: Ancaire
OW is the opposite of you...she's the downgrade. She's equal or below where he is right now as far as character goes. H is not himself - he is the worst version of himself at the moment.
She is absolutely the opposite of me. The downgrade. Hmmm.....I like that. I'm going to have to keep telling myself that. He is downgrading to make himself feel better because he feels superior to her.
Originally Posted By: Ancaire
So, when he finally regains his mind, can you think of any reason he would want to stay with someone like that?
I can't think of any reason he would want to be with her NOW! It makes me so mad everytime I think of her strolling into our house and even after H saw how she upset me, he'd still rather talk to her than me. Sigh....I know, this has nothing to do with me.
Sorry guys, just venting I guess. I'm having a horrible day and have reached out to several people and no one seems available for in person human interaction today. I felt myself slipping into this mood, I just couldn't seem to stop it. Just mad, hurt, depressed, lonely, and miserable all rolled into one bundle of joy to be around.
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
