Just read your posts and i am sorry for what you are going thru...
I would be as angry as you are as I thought my W was in the same boat a few months ago but we hashed things out in terms of an affair which is wasn't. Just not inlove with me anymore allegedly
I don't know if you work out but I have gotten very much back into it this past month to channel my anger and sadness at the gym
Sounds like she is way confused especially if this is what she is messing up your life for right now
Hang in there ....
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....