Sci, Take a look at my recent post. Snooping is not for the feint of heart. Everyone here that is unsure of their spouses activities or mindset wants to know the truth, until they actually have it. If you go down that road, be ready to hear all of the disturbing facts that may be found. I'll say this, it is easier (and more expensive) to investigate someone than I ever thought. I hope the best for you and your M. Be well.
Me-40's W- 40's Married 22, Together 29 BD#1- 6/15 W needs space BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16 Still both home, but not for long