I have the OM info now. All of it.
Name, cell, job description, financials, etc.
I've heard W mention his name before.
He is 2 yrs younger than W. Divorced for 6 years, no children. Lives with his mother and does not have an active drivers license.
So, in the end, I was dumped for an overweight, highly in debt, divorced loser who has to walk to work and who lives with his mother. Sounds like a catch.
This was the better option for W?
What do I do with this intel? Out him to his mother?
She would probably be ecstatic that a woman is even interested in him.
One thing I learned today. I am not the rope dropper or detacher that I say I am. If I were, today's events would not be hitting me as hard as they are.
This has been a week from hell.


Me-40's
W- 40's
Married 22, Together 29
BD#1- 6/15 W needs space
BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16
Still both home, but not for long