I don't know your situation, but if she's being nice to you, I think you should be nice back, if you want your M to work. Make it a fun evening. That's what my coach told me. Let them see what they'd be missing.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat