That's what I was thinking, she needs a villain and yesterday she blamed her brother. I'm assuming she will soon start making me the villain?
I didn't reply to her text but I did mention last night that her bother didn't give me advise.
My IC yesterday said I might have overreacted and could come across as controlling with taking over finances and quit paying for the wife's cell phone. Thoughts? I just don't trust her right now and worried she would take the money and spend it on the Mexico trip instead.
Also my IC recommended that I let the wife go, she has made up her mind and not coming back. I should offer to pay for an apartment for 3-6months and set her up to move out. WTH? This doesn't sound like trying to save my MR, am I missing something?
The wife is still in the house and when I got home last night from work/t-ball signups with the kids she had cleaned the whole house, did all my laundry, and had dinner ready for all of us. She was over the top friendly, asking me a million questions about my day, etc... I kept if very short but pleasant. Or should I just not talk? Why would she act this way? I don't want to read into it but it's so out of character for her lately.
