I cannot bring myself to be in the same room as her. I am reading the links but how do I act ? Do I pretend her comments dont hurt ?
No, you don't have to pretend anything. I would say she is making nasty comments to intentionally cause you emotional pain. If you can't mask the pain, then remove yourself from her presence.
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Do I just let her take my boys and start her new life just like that ?
No, you fight for your kids. That's why you need legal repensentation. Release her to do whatever she wants........except have full custody of your children.
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Last night she re-organised our mug shelf, moving all mine to 1 shelf and hers to another. How do I live with this kind of behaviour ?
That's just silly and very immature behavior on her part. She obviously is set on inflicting you any way she can. When she does something stupid like this, just shake your head as if she's losing her mind, and walk away. MWD says to choose your battles wisely. This is an example of a battle field not worth entering.
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Do I just go quite and pretend she doesn't exist ? This to me will only prove to her self she is doing the right thing in divorcing me.
What do you care what it proves to her? Stop focusing on her. There is nothing you can do to change her. She has to make that choice. She will think how she wants to think about you, proof or no proof. You could be a saint and a WW will find fault with you.
It is very obvious that your WW has lost all respect for you. She won't change her mind until she learns to respect you.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
