She has her own issues with self-image, and very low libido. I'm working through my struggles, and praying that if God wants me to live in a sexless marriage, that I accept it, and continue to reconcile. It might just be that way - my wife sees no issue with zero intimacy. Yes, the Bible says this, that, all the marriage websites say to just do it, but to her, it's icky and gross, and she might not ever get over it. I have to accept that.
I don't believe one word of that and I don't think you should either. The bible talks about mutual submission to one another. Withholding sex because she feels its icky is not acceptable in my eyes when its your job as a spouse to put your spouses needs before yours....i.e. Mutual Submission to one another.
I wouldn't accept it and you shouldn't either. I'm not saying she should turn into a sex addict, but she should respect you as a man and respect your needs.
