Hi (((IP))) You're not alone. Mona's words apply to me too, and I'm grateful for them: "The good news is, when you pull away you force him to become the pursuer. Dont get too worried if he does not pursue right away. It will take time for him to believe you are actually, really 100% pulling away. Since he is in a fog, it will take a ton of time. But you can focus on your needs and let him figure out his path." (Mona52)

Today I move out of my home, and I don't know when I'll see my (x) partner again, or when we'll talk. I have to remember that it's time to work on me but I can't give up hope that she'll come back to me.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat