Thank you. Have been reading all day on here and am half way through the book. I am still confused on how to act with the constant display of nastiness I get at home. I have got my divorce petition and it is starting to become very messy and acrimonious which I feel is because I will not jump to her ( or her solicitors commands). She is actively looking to move out and take our boys away from their family home which I feel is detrimental to their lives. My relationship with my children is nothing but games and tickles and laughs, homework and more chasing and just smiles all the time I am with them. W has told me even her estate agent cannot believe I have not had the balls to move out myself. This is so hurtful I want to scream. I cannot bring myself to be in the same room as her. I am reading the links but how do I act ? Do I pretend her comments dont hurt ? Do I just let her take my boys and start her new life just like that ? Last night she re-organised our mug shelf, moving all mine to 1 shelf and hers to another. How do I live with this kind of behaviour ? Do I just go quite and pretend she doesn't exist ? This to me will only prove to her self she is doing the right thing in divorcing me. Lastly, the speed in which the draft petition came through after separation is bizarre. is it normal for a draft divorce to come through within a couple of weeks ? It seems like she has made her mind up and nothing I can do will even buy us some breathing space or a moment to pause and reflect . It all seems pointless.
me45,W43 S9,S5 T15yrs M10yrs BD 4/07/15 W wants D 4/07/15 W filed 8/05/15 D petition arrived 21/12/15 Merry xmas, W,S5 S9 moved out 5/2/16
