Lol. Thanks Mona52. I'm cool with the R talk. Definitely not the time for one even with her sending mixed messages, or at least I used to see them as mixed messages.
For example, she went online to order tickets to see Peter Rabbit at a local play house because I mentioned a few weeks ago that it would be nice to take D3 to see it. She texted me to see if I wanted to go so I said yes. On the other hand she said, "it's my weekend, but I thought it was best for her". On the one had she wants to do something as a family but she is quick to remind that D mentality has taken hold.
Me:44 W:38 T:10.5 M:7.5 D:3 BD: 7/2015 W moves out of MBR: 9/2015 WW files for D: 2/8/2016