I cannot find the strength inside me to be 'friends' with her.
Don't worry about being her friend, at the moment. You are more concerned about saving the MR than being in a friendship. All WW's say they want to remain friends.
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I love her but I do not like who she is.
B/c she isn't the girl you married. She has seriously changed and you will not see that gal until she comes out the other side.
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I know I am being very stand offish. I don't know how to stop this feeling.
You have been betrayed, slandered, and told lies by your W. You have a right to feel angry. Allow yourself to just feel the emotions and give yourself some time.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
