Fade, I have a L. He is a friend also. I'm covered, in that respect.
The snooping issue is different now. When I started it yesterday, it was to get information on OM. What I found was proof that W is filing soon. The OM is not a factor if D is coming anyway.
As far as the kids, they need to be told the truth soon. Unspoken tension rules my home these days. We've all had enough.

SciDad,


Me-40's
W- 40's
Married 22, Together 29
BD#1- 6/15 W needs space
BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16
Still both home, but not for long