Just some thoughts here. Besides mentally preparing to be served, I know there is a big R talk that will be happening soon. W asked me a few days ago to discuss some upcoming financial issues. I've been available but W avoids me, as usual. I will not bring it up unless W approaches first. She still cannot look me in the eyes. Guilt seeping in, maybe? If/when this discussion takes place, I plan on being pleasant and to the point. Once the discussion shifts from financial to M talk, as I know it will, I am going to stfu. I plan on telling W that unless she has anything to say related to our children or current household finances, she needs to go through L's for anything else. I will not offer opinions or give away what I am going for. She will pay for that info. Any thoughts or suggestions on this would be helpful. Thanks.
Me-40's W- 40's Married 22, Together 29 BD#1- 6/15 W needs space BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16 Still both home, but not for long
