So if she has agreed to both, why is it a big deal to ask to see her phone? I think it's better to be blunt about it then to try to dance around.
If she's working on the MR, then SHE should be helping to set YOUR fears away, right?
The big deal is that I haven't called her on it yet. I was totally "faking it until I made it" when I asked for transparency and she only agreed to it grudgingly....
F it, it's time for me to man up. I NEED to know.
Its not about calling her on it.
It's about agreeing to the same terms. Its about setting that boundary to protect yourself! Why put your energy towards your MR if she isnt "in"?
