Ugghhh, have I mentioned this is hard?

[SciDad]

So if she has agreed to both, why is it a big deal to ask to see her phone? I think it's better to be blunt about it then to try to dance around.

If she's working on the MR, then SHE should be helping to set YOUR fears away, right?

The big deal is that I haven't called her on it yet. I was totally "faking it until I made it" when I asked for transparency and she only agreed to it grudgingly....

F it, it's time for me to man up. I NEED to know.