Waw, she is in love, need advice/support

[Bear007]

My post of the day - yesterday we talked again about separation, and 2 questions came:
Alimony - child support. She wants it, and I don't want to pay it to her, since we can agree that time spent with child will be 50-50

which brings to second topic - yes we can have joint custody but child has to be registered at one address - so she wants her address (which then brings obligatory alimony) and I want child to stay at her current address (me).

we really did not come up to conclusion about this topic because she does not want to give up.

My strategy is to offer her 2 choices:

1 she gets apartment and money to get renovatios or whatewer she wants, and I get chil's primary address, 50-50 on time

2 ugly divorce, no apartment, she moves to her mother, court decides on child.

what is your opinion? Can she be reasoned with?