For the record, I've written on here about wanting to expose the affair, but I won't do that. Sandi2 has written eloquently about the damage that can cause. http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...673#Post2642673

I want to keep my dignity and keep the road home clear, if she should turn in my direction.

11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat