Ugghhh, have I mentioned this is hard?

[SciDad]

mutatio - rants are OK and you don't have to apologize.

My wife works till 7:30 each day sometimes 8:00. She said there is no desire to come home. So I have to cook and clean up after the kids eat. We eat together as a family once a week, tops twice. She complained about my behavior in the past. Okay, point taken, how about now? The selfishness of a ww/waw is incredible.

Sorry for the rant

Believe me I understand. You are where I was about 6 months to a year ago. I worked on things that I thought would help (mainly opening our lines of communication) and trying to boost my wife's self esteem (not a good idea).

The only thing that changed things is when I discovered pics between her and the OM and confronted her. Now we're somewhere different, but I'm not sure where we are or where it's going.