Azzork, I forgot to thank you for posting - I love your insights and bluntness. I need both right now smile

Originally Posted By: Azzork

Eh, one day at a time. When you make a mistake, learn from it and move on.

You mention driving by her work. Why did you do it? What did you expect to gain? What would you do next time?


The drive byes are just a replacement for looking at her phone. I know that, but have a hard time ignoring it. I suppose I would justify it as a way to confirm her stories about where she was (intel), but I'm sure that's not healthy. Besides, I've always thought an EA is far more damaging than a PA, so I'm not sure it really matters where the heck she is as long as she's not at home. Or engaged in something that is helping the family...


Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou