IP (((HUGS))) Focus on you right now. When you ask how you should treat him, treat him in a way that is most helpful towards YOU. It is easier, less painful on us if we can pull far away from them. So to protect yourself from pain, when he comes over, go away. Dont do it so he thinks this or does that, do it for you.
The good news is, when you pull away you force him to become the pursuer. Dont get too worried if he does not pursue right away. It will take time for him to believe you are actually, really 100% pulling away. Since he is in a fog, it will take a ton of time. But you can focus on your needs and let him figure out his path.
Patience is the key. Now hurry up and be patient!
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!
