I had planned to just get space and catch up on emails, etc. - no talk. He essentially went and did his own thing anyway (in the garage), so no confrontation. I think he thought about it, since he came to the bedroom, looked around but left the lights off and left to drink some more. But this morning it was a return to his usual spew.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?