Ancaire, I'm so sorry I've missed a lot of your story lately. I simply haven't had time to get on the forums without someone (either at home or at work) looking over my shoulder...

Now that that's over with I have a few questions.

1) Is the reason you're OK with your husband forwarding your emails because you think it shows he cares or because you don't care any more? I think it's important for you to examine the answer - you've made too much progress to start falling back into old patterns.

2) I'm still reading back, but how is you GAL going? Are you getting out of the house and away from slimy, err... I mean your husband?

3) What are your plans for next week?

4) Have you updated or evaluated your goals lately?

5) Not a question, but a statement. I doubt you believe this, but you are probably one of the strongest people I know. And you have the purest heart. With that combination you have a great future, with or without your husband smile

OK, that's all for now. I'll take a quick tour of the board before I start my new thread.


Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou