Thank you all for taking the time to read and reply.
Isn't it just so so sad that a common theme runs through so many of these stories ?

I am trying so hard to do the rules but at the moment I just feel so much anger and resentment inside, like I have not only been betrayed with her EA but my whole relationship has been belittled and de-valued.
I cannot find the strength inside me to be 'friends' with her.
I love her but I do not like who she is.
I know I am being very stand offish. I don't know how to stop this feeling.
I would so so much appreciate any suggestions


me45,W43 S9,S5
T15yrs M10yrs
BD 4/07/15
W wants D 4/07/15
W filed 8/05/15
D petition arrived 21/12/15 Merry xmas,
W,S5 S9 moved out 5/2/16