Thank you all for taking the time to read and reply. Isn't it just so so sad that a common theme runs through so many of these stories ?
I am trying so hard to do the rules but at the moment I just feel so much anger and resentment inside, like I have not only been betrayed with her EA but my whole relationship has been belittled and de-valued. I cannot find the strength inside me to be 'friends' with her. I love her but I do not like who she is. I know I am being very stand offish. I don't know how to stop this feeling. I would so so much appreciate any suggestions
me45,W43 S9,S5 T15yrs M10yrs BD 4/07/15 W wants D 4/07/15 W filed 8/05/15 D petition arrived 21/12/15 Merry xmas, W,S5 S9 moved out 5/2/16