So she still hasn't brought the paperwork over I gave her. Her mother called me and said she doesn't want to sign because the kids will lose their insurance. I think it's an excuse to keep me as plan B when her and this guy don't work out
So options now are go live my life as if I am divorced. Gal. Detach. Ride this out until their affair is over. Or go to an attorney press for divorce. Pay the money. And everything that comes with that.
I don't want to be her plan B. I want to save my marriage. Domt know what path to take here.
The thread about lbh and wayward wife's fits her to a tee. She is most of all of those things except when we talk and interact she is very nice. I see her and smile and joke with her. Pretty much the guy I was when she met me. I have lost weight and am in great shape right now. Everything that attracted her to me.
I know it's her that's standing in the way right now. It's not claims of being in love with this guy and I don't really see that. He isn't living there but stays over at her house. I really think she is starting to see the fantasy isn't real but is in deep with renting a house and the shame of having an affair.
