Ancaire, his genuine shock and dismay may have been over you finding out. If you saw his e-mail account as the forward to-address, who else would have done it?

I have had shock after shock about what my H was capable of doing and planning behind my back. It's like they go into a self-protective state without understanding that they are the ones who started the attacks.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17