Ancaire, his genuine shock and dismay may have been over you finding out. If you saw his e-mail account as the forward to-address, who else would have done it?
I have had shock after shock about what my H was capable of doing and planning behind my back. It's like they go into a self-protective state without understanding that they are the ones who started the attacks.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17