Ugh, something happened on my phone and my long post was cut off so this one is a lot shorter.
Her behavior is like a lot of what I've been reading in other posts. Acting like a teenager. This was a really difficult time for w as was most if her life. I was thinking about events and timing and her parents split up for a good amount of time when she was about our kid's ages. She also lived with her grandparents for a long time and was close to them both. From what she told me in the past, her grandmother always treated her grandfather with resentment. I also thought about back to the time that w is now claiming she's been unhappy with me since and it coincides with her grandmothers death.
Her room is a disaster( I had to laugh when I put some Landry in when she was gone but then I felt bad for her). Her car is even worse. She went and got a new phone and tablet on her own plan and didn't update people. I thought it was just my family at first but a close friend contacted my sister on Facebook to try to reach her. So I guess her FB is deactivated again (it was for good reason before friends death). it is part of what the argument mentioned in my first post was about. She did call her friend after I told her.
She also asks about my counseling appointments a lot. How they were and when they are. I just keep my response short and tell her I'm working on myself.
And another one, she rearranged dishes in the cupboards, just a few things, insisting on the new way. Wth is that about? But hey, at least she's putting dishes away now.
