Damn Free, you're relatively knew to the board too. Do you have a desire to save your M or are you completely out? Either one works for me, I'm just curious.
I appreciate a man who will use "the head of lettuce" metaphor in his posts. Kudos to you for your articulation!
Sorry you're here, especially after spending so much of your life with someone. I hope your W comes out of the fog and does so before more damage is done. Just because she's interested or pursuing D doesn't mean she's going to go through with it.
Sounds like you're a man with a plan though.
Best of luck in your sitch.
PP
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17