Help..I am drowning

[rich4j]

Has anyone who has had to live in the same house with your W who is planning on a D been able to cope and keep things sane for months? She is going to see the lawyer tomorrow. Step 2

I want to stay here for my daughter and keep things civil but its so hard. I came back from a work trip today and we had to text each other about the dogs, daughter etc....and she had meetings too about a project she is working on. And unsolicited she says "todays meetings were the best I have had to date..."

Naturally I tried to DB by just answering the question /text around the dogs and time I would be back but had to say "congrats". I am looking back at this saying I should have just stuck to the dogs .....why congratulate her?

Ugh...I need some scotch!