[BrightFuture]

Haven’t heard from H today. I guess he is still thinking where he wants his driver’s license to be mailed to. I think there might be some deeper depression there right now. I was doing some bank account stuff online and checked H’s account too (it is linked to our joint account that is still there and where he transfers money for the condo every month.) There are a couple of checks for the HOA and golf fee for the condo. Ouch… That is a lot of money. It is for the entire year, but considering H’s income, it is a significant amount.

On another mote, I got myself into a potentially unpleasant situation. I went to an attorney today in hopes to find out how I can create a will, so my house would go to my son and not H (since we are still legally married) in case something happens to me. I think I let my guard down and revealed too much info to the attorney. And he happened to be one of those who talk a lot (their fees are hourly, right) and tried to push me to do the trust instead of a will. This consultation was free (even though he spent 2 ½ hours with me instead of 30 min), but the fee he wants to charge me for a simple will is outrageous. Of course he had to find out all the details about the assets and stuff before he announced the fee.

I sent him an e-mail asking him to hold to with any action on this. Half an hour later I received an e-mail from him with the whole write up, like he never got my e-mail. I’m p!ssed at myself for allowing this. I will be telling him that I will not need his services. I’m just concerned that he has a lot of my info now. Maybe this is my warning to be careful with the layers is case it comes to D. Not everyone has my best interest in mind.