How do I respond since that's the opposite of my 180?
How's that 180 working out for you???Good point Drew.
DB101 - Do more of what works.
I also feel you should go back and read the books again. It seems you're struggling with some of the basic concepts. yes, even while reading I had many questions. It's hard for me to get time to read them since if he sees what I read he sharpshoots it every time. And he's around much more than I am (because of my work).
Originally Posted By: kyrie
he sincerely seems to want to work on things, it's his method that's the issue.
Actions speak louder than words. When his actions say he wants to work on things ...
In my opinion, he's got it pretty good. You pay the bills, take care of the house and kids, etc. He gets to play, surf porn, visit strip joints, have a mistress, be holier than thou, and blame it all on you. And you just take it.
Like another poster said, maybe he needs a taste of what life would be without you.
How?
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
