I am checking in to read your post which I will think about a little, my notes on your threads are detailed in places and non existent in others, so I have a little extra catch up to do.
Can you fill in a couple of for me?
Did things change after your sons were born? Sex slowed down after each pregnancy, but ramped up again when she wanted another.
Wife lost twins pretty early in third pregnancy that her body never recovered from. She had ongoing problems that wventually required a hystorectomy almost 1.5 years after DNC. She lost an ovary due to cysts another year and half latter. Early menopause signs.
How does it behave? Has it a colour or shape does it move, grow, is it ',flame' like or 'cool?' How long does it last? Is it ever in your throat head or chest?
What is the it you are asking about here...i am slow tonight
Has your W any family issues and siblings? Tons. Beside CSA that has been touched on here, her mom was abusive to all the kids. Verbally and minor physical abuse. Fsther was and still is very passive. She is extremely controling to date. Wife was 15 when we started dating, i saw a bunch of it...it tapered off as i was around more.
Wifes younger brother died at the age of 8. Wife still bothered by the accident, fell at a public place. (hmmm, around same age as my oldest son when wife started to turn - am pretty sure her abuse was about that age when wife was almost 8 as well, so another trigger for when my oldest was about 8 - when all this really started about 5 years ago).
She is honestly looking at er interactions with mom. Her sister too. ..that is positive.
I also want to examine the shame issue with you a little more but think it would be better as a separate topic.
I guessed one of your LL might be physical touch! I recognise the issues perhaps because I have had to address them myself.
Yes, touch, acts and qt. I am learning to appreciate gifts and woa so much more.
