Late to the game

[Free]

Operation Snoop-Day 1
Not much intel on OM, but I found that the D filing is imminent.
This is the heartache I referred to in my last post. At least I know where I stand now.
I've been preparing for the worst, and the worst is coming.
A co-worker asked me if, after what's happened the last 8 months, do I regret marrying my W.
No, I do not regret it at all. We have three beautiful children and did great things together. We built the American Dream.
What it has turned into is highly unfortunate, and I wish I had seen the signs of unhappiness sooner. But, I did not. Still, I have no regrets in my choice of W, only regrets for my share of the demise. The real share, not her revisionist share.
Times like these make you think of things that you never really think about. "Divorce? I'll never get divorced!" That was me a year ago.
Look at me now.
It does help to know that I am not alone. Thanks to all for your help and support so far. It is very appreciated.