Maybe when she is calm you can let her know that it was disrespectful and not good for the children.
I am not sure if you reassure her of what you are doing it not. I also not sure if you let her know your needs if there will ever be another you and her.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15