Exactly, NYGal. We're all here. We all know. I wanted to shake,the sh!t out of my wife and just smack the crap out of her and scream into her face how the F can you be doing this? How can you be such a despicable human being? Are,this F'ing cruel or just really F'ing stupid? Huh? Which is it you heartless F'ing b!tch because it has to be one of them, or maybe even both. How can you just sh!t all over us like that?!? I really hate your F'ing guts right now you stupid whore!!
See? I've been there. Where am I right this minute? Sitting at the park and ride bus stop waiting to pick her up. I can't wait to see her. I love her so much and she loves me. If I had really said all those things I wrote above back when she surely deserved those words, I'm pretty sure we'd be long divorced.
As the sane betrayed spouse you really have to swallow a lot of sh!t if you want to save the marriage. If you're not interested in saving it then by all means go ahead and let her have it. It would probably feel great but you'd probably end up saying something you can't unsay so you're better off swallowing that sh!t sandwich and venting to us when necessary. You get used to the taste of sh!t. I find it goes down easier with BBQ sauce. ;-) Also, don't lose your humor. It can keep you sane as you navigate her insanity.
