7 month rollercoaster ride

[DadsCB]

Thanks Sandi2 for your comments, I know that was a big wall of text and honestly I was emotional when writing it.

We have not shared a bed since September 12th, no sex, no kissing, maybe 5 hugs (she's asked for many more hugs but I don't always say yes).
I was trying to 180/37rules now I am doing NC but that is hard in the same home.
Until very recently our typical day was, I take kids to school and leave for work. She picks kids up and when I get home around 5:30 we have dinner, homework, etc... I then go to the gym until 8:30ish come home and work in the home office or watch TV in living room and she stays in family room doing homework or TV (also sleeps on that couch). I have been GAL at least 2 nights a week with hobbies and/or friends.

Since I set my boundaries yesterday we have hardly talked. She asked how many days she has before her phone shuts off and reminded me to get S6 signed up for T-ball this morning.

Then she sent me an text today that was a full on rant, telling me "I know you want to move forward as peacefully and smoothly for the kids, so quit taking advise from my brother" it goes on calling him names and warning me that he is a bad influence.
I didn't reply.

Interesting enough, he has never offered advice and we have spoken maybe 3 times at a very high level about this. I'm assuming she finally answered his call and he spoke his mind.

Lastly she has asked me and her family to read ... Does anyone know this book? Looks like something to help her feel "good" about separating and not deal with the guilt.

Thanks again!

Me:36
W:39
S:6
D:5
Together: 9+ years
Married: 7+ years