I heartily support the screaming of curse words. Mine happen to be directed at the OW, but directing them at the WAS works, too, I suppose. Try it in the car, preferably when stopped. I've called her every name in the book that seems appropriate. It feels good.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat