and the craziness continues. I got home last night at about 9 pm. chatted with the boys then started playing w D4 in her room. WXW came in and started harassing me saying things like "you don't have to pretend to like the boys." "don't be out with your girlfriend and then come home in time to tell the kids goodnight" "I'm sure your girlfriend has kids go be with that family and leave this one alone." "D4 Daddy's been with his girlfriend all night and only came home to say goodnight to you" "Great parenting" " I wish you would have stayed at your girlfriends and didn't come home"
Through all of this I continued to tell her to leave me alone. I walked away several times and eventually told her she was jealous. SS14 kept saying "Mom, stop. Stop Mom" but she just kept on going. I eventually started asking SS14 to take his mom into his room. She eventually went to the boys room which is where she usually sleeps. D4 and I went to the MBR. D4 asked if I locked the door. I told her I did. She said "good because I don't want her coming in here"
Today has been more of the same but over text msg's. Including a msg that said "I'm seeing someone too. He's wonderful in everyway" "When he bought his new house he asked me to pick out all the furniture" Then she sent me a picture of someone she is claiming to be him.
She didn't get a rise out of me whatsoever. I knew anything I said she would just twist and attack me further so I sent a couple bible verses such as " In your anger, do not sin." "do not judge......" " Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all offenses."
Here is what I believe is going on. She wants me back. She wants to live this fantasy where I'll pursue her, we'll date, we'll remarry and she'll never have to do any work to reconcile the relationship. Well, I'm not interested in that. This scenario puts me right back into an abusive relationship where she still hasn't been helped.
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place