How do I respond since that's the opposite of my 180?
How's that 180 working out for you???
DB101 - Do more of what works.
I also feel you should go back and read the books again. It seems you're struggling with some of the basic concepts.
Originally Posted By: kyrie
he sincerely seems to want to work on things, it's his method that's the issue.
Actions speak louder than words. When his actions say he wants to work on things ...
In my opinion, he's got it pretty good. You pay the bills, take care of the house and kids, etc. He gets to play, surf porn, visit strip joints, have a mistress, be holier than thou, and blame it all on you. And you just take it.
Like another poster said, maybe he needs a taste of what life would be without you.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.