Hi Trumpet (and Drew - welcome to my Purgatory),
Remember, when I do that, he persists or accuses me of not caring, controling the sitch and that's the opposite of my 180.
Sometimes its not all spew... he sincerely seems to want to work on things, it's his method that's the issue.
How do I respond since that's the opposite of my 180?
I'm so dense. Y'all are so patient.

Hey Trumpet - rock on with losing weight & being more healthy. Sounds like you've come SO far. I'm so happy for you.

Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?