Thanks for catching up. Yes, very critical juncture.
Just don't want to screw it up. Patience is flashing in my brain constantly.
Maybe patience is letting the OM die a slow death? Or maybe she goes back to him? I just hate dipping my toe in the water, and the wife does, and then she pulls it. How many times do we do the dance? Do I stop doing the dance until she's hip deep in water, and then put a toe in the water?
At first, I wanted to jump in, did jump in, and asked her to join me. That didn't work. I dried off, and then she did dip her toe in the water, but when I wasn't looking, pulled it out and put her socks back on.
Patience, little trumpet. Patience.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)