Should have. If I was involved more than just signing my name to papers. I sat back and let her handle the paperwork and finances. Never asked her to do it. Just sat back and expected her to do it. It was a huge issue with us. Was I just expected her to handle my baggage. It grew resentment for me.
I recognize my short comings in the M and am working still in remedying my attitude towards everything because I have to step up for my kids and myself


The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.