Chris, keep in mind also that you cannot trust what she says. Meaning, that even if she revealed something to you in conversation, all that you know is that she revealed that to you in conversation. You don't know that it is the truth, or current information, or all of the information.
Also, you don't know that the NC or LRT had anything to do with her actions. By definition, they had NOTHING to do with her in fact. She is choosing what she is choosing.
It [censored], I know. But it sounds like you've been doing good GAL, so just keep it up brother.
Me:41 - LBH in apt W:39 - WW in home Kids:D(15), D(11), S(9) - custody % 58/42 M: 15 yrs - DoS: 10-11-15 (PA confirmed 2-12-16; WW dumped by AP 11-6-15; WW dated 7-8 men in Jan '16 via Match.com)