Thank you all. There's a lot to take in here. Tx, that is a good quote. I wish my W had friends that would say that to her. Investigating and exposing an A with a spouse who already stated that she wants a D is tricky, but there is nothing to lose and possibly nothing to gain but more heartache. I will proceed with caution.
Me-40's W- 40's Married 22, Together 29 BD#1- 6/15 W needs space BD#2- OM confirmed PA 1/8/16 Still both home, but not for long